Its poor thinking when people say that women are incapable or even should not be permitted to go to college, travel or apply for certain jobs, in reason. In contrast to our culture, that views women, I would ague, like men and that women if they are to be equal to men must do or act similar to men. Don't get me wrong, I want to say it plainly that women are made to be equals with men, but women are not made to be men. I think we all can agree that women are not men, nor are they supposed to be men. Women have innate abilities that men biologically do not possess. Most importantly, those innate abilities do not make women inferior to men, but offer society something that is all satisfying, completely deserving respect that comes from women being women. What they may look like for each women may very, but I do not imagine it would very far from lets say motherhood, if a women happens to be a mother. For a women who is a mother has motherly responsibilities as a mother. Therefore, if she avoids those responsibilities, usually poor consequences occur because of neglecting of responsibility. The same is said and should be more heavily enforced about men who are fathers. Because fathers ought to care the most responsibility for their families. Additionally, fathers have a responsibility to their wives as husbands. Husbands ought to make accept their responsibility as husbands and the building up of their wives. I think for a lot of women this means activities outside the home. For example, like cycling or racquetball or times away with the girls; more or less things that build her up and encourage her to make much of her worth and well-rounded person, especially as a mother and wife. Keeping women locked up and stifled is not healthy for our marriages and our families as a whole.
We do not have to look too far to see that both fathers and mothers at home do produce happy families and good contributors to society. With divorce rates, for instance, skyrocketing more than 60% we can conclude that something is wrong. What I would like to suggest is a new perspective, one that challenges social norms of our day and begin to respectively evaluate where we are, where we have come, and where we want to be. I think women want to pursue and explore and have options to pursue other means outside of the home for whatever the reasons maybe, with careful consideration; if her motives are not edifying for her family then of course some things need to be addressed. I’m just thinking if she is putting her family at harm with a relationship she might have with someone outside of the home, such as a women who has harmful advice or is a poor influence; or a man who might be wanting more out of a relationship with her that would be harmful for the family and society at large. Likewise, I think men want what men have always wanted and that is respect. I think women want love and worth; while men want love and respect. Why can’t we accomplish relational satisfaction in both sexes, while at the same time be equipping the next generations, our kids. Our kids need these same basic emotional facets of affection in healthy relationships with both their father and mother. These facets of affection are so innate that I believe it to be essential for both a mother and a father to effectively create a stable household. The happiest marriages performed in a sociological study in the US showed that households where both the mother and the father were present and committed led to greater family success (Essentials of Sociology, 338). Sociologist Nicholas Stinnett found that happy families (1) spend more time together, (2) are quick to express appreciation, (3) are committed to promoting one another's welfare, (4) do a lot of talking and listening to one another, (5) are religious, and (6) deal with crisis in a positive manner (338). The point being and the solution that I encourage others to at least look into are the traditional advantages to marriage and what those heart felt desires are that I listed are that both women and men at the heart truly desire.
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